RE:DOWERIES AND SUCH...

WHY ARE GROOMS PAID A DOWERY TO MARRY THE MORE SUPERIOR OF THE TWO GENDERS, IN MY OPINION? THE SABOTAGE MADE EASY TO SWIPE WHAT BELONGS TO A WOMAN BEFORE MARRIAGE AND THEREAFTER MAKING IT HIS, THE GROOM. IN AFRICA CERTAIN TRIBES THE MALE WEARS MAKE UP, PRIMPS AND IS ADORED WHILE HIS WIFE AND PERHAPS MOTHER OF HIS CHILD(REN) GOES OUT AND WORKS TO BRING HOME FOOD FOR HER FAMILY. NONE OF THESE SCENARIOS AND ADDITIONAL ONES BASED ON SO CALLED CULTURE IN MY OPINION NEED TO BE CHANGED IMMEDIATELY OR AT THE LEAST CONTEMPLATED. IN EUROPE OF COURSE TITLES ARE SUPPOSE TO MEAN SOMETHING BUT WHAT DO THEY REALLY DO TO ENHANCE THEIR "SUBJECTS" WHO THE TITLED ONES ARE SUPPOSE TO REPRESENT? THE SUBJECTS BECOME THE WORK HORSES NOT FOR THEMSELVES OR THEIR FAMILIES, BUT TO SUPPORT THE TITLED ONES, IS THIS REASONABLE AND FAIR? IN AMERICA THE RUSE IS QUITE DEVIOUS AND DECEPTIVE, THE DECEPTION IN ENGLAND IS LESS SO, HOWEVER. WHEN I MARRIED I WAS NOT ALLOWED TO WORK. I STAYED HOME TO HAVE CHILDREN AND BE A GOOD WIFE AND MOTHER TO MY FAMILY. IN OTHER WORDS I MUST BE SELFLESS. MY SELF DID NOT MATTER. SINCE MY MOTHER HAD BEEN ADOPTED AND TAKEN OUT OF PUBLIC SCHOOL TO ATTEND TO THE NEEDS OF THE RELIGIOUS ONES, SACRIFICING HER DESIRES, AND EVENTUALLY MARRYING A HANDSOME PRINCE WHO THOUGHT TOO HIGHLY OF HIS CHOSEN CAREER, THAT OF ENTERTAINER BY WAY OF JAZZ MUSICIAN, HE TOO LIKE THE WOMAN HE MARRIES IS SACRIFICED, HIS LIFE TAKEN TO BETTER HUMANITY SUPPOSEDLY, BY ALLOWING THE MEDICAL FIELD TO PRACTISE ON HIM FOR THE PURPOSE OF ERADICATING LUNG CANCER, OR, AT THE VERY LEAST GETTING THE MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS CLOSER TO THEIR GOAL OF ERADICATING IT ALL TOGETHER. MY MOTHER WAS USED AS A SACRIFICIAL LAMB, AND SO WAS MY FATHER,MY BROTHER, AND SO WAS I, ALL ORCHESTRATED BY THE SUPREME DEVIOUS ONES, OF ALL RELIGIONS. MEN SUBCUMBING, BECOMING WOMEN, BECAUSE THEY ENVY THE POSITION OF ATTRACTIVE WOMEN, ACTUALLY PREFERRING TO BECOME WOMEN AND BEING TAKEN CARE OF BY WEALTHY MEN, AS MANY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HAVE BEEN. WOMEN, IN TURN WHO IDENTIFY WITH THE HARSHNESS OF MEN, BECOME MEN WANTING TO CONTROL THE VERY GENDER THEY ONCE WERE. IN THIS TIME,SPACE, AND PLACE CALLED EVOLUTION THE FINAL STAGE IN ERADICATING ALL RACIAL AND PREJUDGEMENT FOREVER, WE ARE FACED WITH A DECISION BASED SOLELY ON TRUTH OF WHAT IS MEANT TO BE,ORDAINED BY THE ALMIGHTY AND THOSE ON HIGH. WOMEN SHOULD NOT PAY MEN UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES FOR HAVING MEN ADORE THEM, WHICH IS A NATURAL STATE THAT SHOULD BE SHARED BETWEEN GENDERS. WHAT THIS PECULIAR "STRATEGY" DOES IS UPSET THE BALANCE OF NATURE. CONFUSING MALES AND FEMALES AND THE ROLES THAT NATURE HAD INTENDED FOR THEM. THIS MAY HAVE STARTED DURING THE LAST CENTURY WHEN SOCIETY BELIEVED THAT MEN NEED NO LONGER BE TESTED TO SHOW THEIR STRENGTH ENDURANCE AND HONOR AS MEN. WHY IN CERTAIN TRIBES IN AFRICA A MALE MUST KILL THE KING OF THE JUNGLE BEFORE HE MAY RETURN HOME TO SHOW HONOR TO NOT ONLY HIMSELF BUT HIS FAMILY AS WELL. WHEN THESE TRAITS ARE ELEMINATED IT DESTROYES THE BALANCE OF NATURE WHICH IS WHY IN MY OPINION YOU HAVE CERTAIN YOUTH, BOTH MALE AND FEMALE WITHOUT SHAME WILLING TO SHOW THEIR UNDERWEAR IN PUBLIC CALLING IT STYLE. WOMEN, THANKS TO THE CONTRIVED WOMEN'S MOVEMENT WHICH ELEMINATED MEN PAYING WHEN THEY ESCORTED A WOMAN OUT ON A DATE, I TOO HAD BEEN SUCKERED PUNCH ON THAT ONE, BELIEVING THE TREND AT THE TIME. AROUND THIS TIME I RECALL STANDING ON THE CORNER OF HOLLYWOOD AND VINE WAITING FOR THE LIGHT TO CHANGE IN MY FAVOR SO I MAY CROSS THE STREET AND I TURNED TO MY LEFT SEEING A YOUNG MAN WEARING FACE MAKE UP MASCARRA, AND A BUSINESS SUIT, SHIRT AND TIE, AND HE LOOKED AT ME IN DEFIANCE WITH A WICKED SMILE, NODDING SLIGHTLY AS IF SAYING, "SEE, I'M PRETTIER THAN YOU". WHETHER TRUE OR NOT, THE POINT IS, WHEN SOCIETY SETS UP THESE MINDLESS STUNTS AS BEING IMPORTANT RATHER THAN PROTECTING THE HONOR OF FAMILY AND COUNTRY, YOU ARE CERTAIN THAT ALL OF SOCIETY IS GOING DOWNHILL RATHER THAN UP HILL, AND THOUGH THE WRONG DIRECTION IS ALWAYS TOO EASY TO TRAVEL WHICH IS THE HIDDEN TRAP, BETTER TO OPT FOR THE MORE DIFFICULT DIRECTION FOR THE GREATER REWARD. (C)COPYRIGHTED BY GWENDOLYN L MITCHELL ON MARCH 21, 2015 AT 12:11PM LA,CA 90046, USA REVISED AT 2:20PM